Home » Coaching Blog » Coaching Tools & Resources » Coaching Graphics » THINK Acronym for Kinder and More Effective Communications (Infographic) THINK Acronym for Kinder and More Effective Communications (Infographic) February 24, 2016 Reading Time: Less than 1 min Share431Tweet20Share40Pin4K4K SharesThis THINK acronym and infographic helps us communicate more kindly with others. Originally the THINK acronym was created to help reduce online bullying (to be used before posting something on Social Media), but it's actually useful for all our communications... Where Could You Enrich Your Communications with the THINK Acronym? To deepen your learning, ponder the questions below: How could the THINK Acronym help your clients? How could you use this THINK acronym in workshops or groups? Where could THINK help you in your relationships (work, home, socially)? Where could you post this THINK infographic to reduce online (or other) bullying? Who else could find this acronym helpful? Finally, if you liked this THINK Acronym Infographic on Kindness and Communication, you may also like: Be Brave – Be Authentic – Be Fabulous! By Ruby McGuire Healthy Conflicts: What's Underneath the Anger Costume? By Julia Menard 5 Conflict Tips and a Powerful Model to Make Your Conflict Conversations Run More Smoothly! Categories: Coaching Graphics, Coaching Ideas & Inspiration, Conflict Management, Difficult Clients, Helpful Question Lists, Kindness, Personal Growth for Coaches, Productivity & Time Management, Walking our Talk 23 Comments Lynda Monk February 29, 2016 Hi Emma, do you know the original source of THINK? It is a great tool, thank you for sharing it! Warmly, Lynda Reply Emma-Louise February 29, 2016 I did some research and couldn't find the original source. It seems to have originated as an anti-bullying acronym for social media posting. But sadly, no luck as to finding the origin! 🙂 Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply Rochelle Blaszczyk June 23, 2017 I knew the THINK acronym well before there was such a thing as "online" anything. Don't know who created it, but it didn't have anything to do with online bullying. However, it is a great acronym to live by and remind us that our words have consequences. Reply Claire June 13, 2018 i believe it is based upon a Buddhist saying: Before you speak, let your words pass through 3 gates: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? Reply Fern July 7, 2020 Do all these need to be true? Sometimes something needs to be said that isn’t kind, but it is true, helpful, important....if we apply this to everything we communicate, everyday, why would we even speak our opinion on something? Reply Emma-Louise July 13, 2020 Hi Fern, Great comment! And I agree (personally). I think we can ALWAYS be kind - but that doesn't mean we aren't firm or even fiercely kind. In fact, I am in the process of developing a new practice/website and much more - based on exactly this, Fierce Kindness. Kindness that is strong, protects boundaries and speaks the truth - is still kindness! Warmly, Emma-Louise Jamie January 23, 2021 I am looking to it as applicable only if we are talking about another person, it's how to avoid being critical/rude to others or gossiping about others. Pam November 15, 2016 Many times there are infographs...where can I get a copy of them as a poster like the "think' one? Reply Emma-Louise November 15, 2016 Dear Pam, great question. You can always "right-click" on the image, save or copy the image and then print it if you'd like a copy to refer to! Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply Peggy Baldwin January 1, 2017 I'm trying to find the source also. I've heard it for many years, way before social media. Reply Emma-Louise January 2, 2017 Dear Peggy, well, if you ever do find the source, I'd love to hear about it. And if I find the source, I'll share it here too. Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply Pamela May 10, 2017 In 1932 A 4 Way Test was created by Rotarian Herbert J Taylor 1. Is it the Truth? 2. Is it Fair to all concerned? 3. Will it build Goodwill and Better Friendship? 4. Will it be Benefical to all? Reply Emma-Louise May 11, 2017 Thank-you Pamela - that's lovely! I have heard it before, but didn't know where it was from 🙂 Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply Rocio July 12, 2018 Hello 🙂 I would like to share this graphic for a blog post I am doing. I would like to keep it attached to your website so coaches can find it. Let me know if this is okay with you, please 🙂 Reply Emma-Louise July 16, 2018 Hi Rocio, this is fine with us! We designed our infographics to be helpful - and shareable! Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply Claudia April 3, 2019 I found you in a Google search as I couldn't remember the "I" in THINK! I was given this back in the 1980s in management training programs, long before online bullying needed the refresher. Reply Emma-Louise April 3, 2019 Hi Claudia, thank-you for your comment! That's great to hear - I've had trouble finding the origin of this acronym! It's been around for quite a while then! Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply Lynda Boxwell May 25, 2020 From Claire .............. June 13, 2018 i believe it is based upon a Buddhist saying: Before you speak, let your words pass through 3 gates: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? Reply Emma-Louise May 27, 2020 Hi Lynda, that definitely fits the THINK Acronym. Thank-you for that reference 🙂 Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply clifford armenta July 17, 2020 With each word that is spoken, let it edify the hearer Reply Cristi A Cave August 12, 2020 I found a little hand-made book of my mother's, when she was a little girl, that had this saying in it. And she quoted it to me once as well. This little book would have been made in about 1946. The difference was that "Inspiring" was definitely not the word for "I". That "Inspiring" part strikes me as very wrong. We should never speak unless we think our words are inspiring? If so, only narcissists would be talking. I believe the original might well have been "Important." Reply mturcott September 1, 2020 How interesting! Yes, maybe Inspiring isn't always possible but in the image it also says "Does it IMPROVE on the silence". Reply Noelle October 7, 2020 It’s from the 12 step program, Al-anon. Z12 step programs are largely based on Buddhist principals. Reply Leave a Reply Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published.CommentName* Email* Website
Lynda Monk February 29, 2016 Hi Emma, do you know the original source of THINK? It is a great tool, thank you for sharing it! Warmly, Lynda Reply
Emma-Louise February 29, 2016 I did some research and couldn't find the original source. It seems to have originated as an anti-bullying acronym for social media posting. But sadly, no luck as to finding the origin! 🙂 Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply
Rochelle Blaszczyk June 23, 2017 I knew the THINK acronym well before there was such a thing as "online" anything. Don't know who created it, but it didn't have anything to do with online bullying. However, it is a great acronym to live by and remind us that our words have consequences. Reply
Claire June 13, 2018 i believe it is based upon a Buddhist saying: Before you speak, let your words pass through 3 gates: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? Reply
Fern July 7, 2020 Do all these need to be true? Sometimes something needs to be said that isn’t kind, but it is true, helpful, important....if we apply this to everything we communicate, everyday, why would we even speak our opinion on something? Reply
Emma-Louise July 13, 2020 Hi Fern, Great comment! And I agree (personally). I think we can ALWAYS be kind - but that doesn't mean we aren't firm or even fiercely kind. In fact, I am in the process of developing a new practice/website and much more - based on exactly this, Fierce Kindness. Kindness that is strong, protects boundaries and speaks the truth - is still kindness! Warmly, Emma-Louise
Jamie January 23, 2021 I am looking to it as applicable only if we are talking about another person, it's how to avoid being critical/rude to others or gossiping about others.
Pam November 15, 2016 Many times there are infographs...where can I get a copy of them as a poster like the "think' one? Reply
Emma-Louise November 15, 2016 Dear Pam, great question. You can always "right-click" on the image, save or copy the image and then print it if you'd like a copy to refer to! Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply
Peggy Baldwin January 1, 2017 I'm trying to find the source also. I've heard it for many years, way before social media. Reply
Emma-Louise January 2, 2017 Dear Peggy, well, if you ever do find the source, I'd love to hear about it. And if I find the source, I'll share it here too. Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply
Pamela May 10, 2017 In 1932 A 4 Way Test was created by Rotarian Herbert J Taylor 1. Is it the Truth? 2. Is it Fair to all concerned? 3. Will it build Goodwill and Better Friendship? 4. Will it be Benefical to all? Reply
Emma-Louise May 11, 2017 Thank-you Pamela - that's lovely! I have heard it before, but didn't know where it was from 🙂 Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply
Rocio July 12, 2018 Hello 🙂 I would like to share this graphic for a blog post I am doing. I would like to keep it attached to your website so coaches can find it. Let me know if this is okay with you, please 🙂 Reply
Emma-Louise July 16, 2018 Hi Rocio, this is fine with us! We designed our infographics to be helpful - and shareable! Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply
Claudia April 3, 2019 I found you in a Google search as I couldn't remember the "I" in THINK! I was given this back in the 1980s in management training programs, long before online bullying needed the refresher. Reply
Emma-Louise April 3, 2019 Hi Claudia, thank-you for your comment! That's great to hear - I've had trouble finding the origin of this acronym! It's been around for quite a while then! Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply
Lynda Boxwell May 25, 2020 From Claire .............. June 13, 2018 i believe it is based upon a Buddhist saying: Before you speak, let your words pass through 3 gates: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? Reply
Emma-Louise May 27, 2020 Hi Lynda, that definitely fits the THINK Acronym. Thank-you for that reference 🙂 Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply
Cristi A Cave August 12, 2020 I found a little hand-made book of my mother's, when she was a little girl, that had this saying in it. And she quoted it to me once as well. This little book would have been made in about 1946. The difference was that "Inspiring" was definitely not the word for "I". That "Inspiring" part strikes me as very wrong. We should never speak unless we think our words are inspiring? If so, only narcissists would be talking. I believe the original might well have been "Important." Reply
mturcott September 1, 2020 How interesting! Yes, maybe Inspiring isn't always possible but in the image it also says "Does it IMPROVE on the silence". Reply
Noelle October 7, 2020 It’s from the 12 step program, Al-anon. Z12 step programs are largely based on Buddhist principals. Reply