Home » Coaching Blog » Coaching Ideas & Inspiration » Achieve More: Why You Need Stillness to be Productive! Achieve More: Why You Need Stillness to be Productive! Last Updated: July 26, 2022 Reading Time: 3 min Emma-Louise ShareTweet1Share8Pin413 Shares Imagine a glass full of water scooped up from a puddle in a field. It's muddy and swirling around—like our daily lives, full of activity, messiness and life! But if you put that glass of water down and let it sit, it eventually clears itself. It is STILLNESS that allows the dirt to settle to the bottom and the water to clear. One VITAL thing that many people forget is that we also need stillness. Because just like that glass of muddy water, stillness helps us get clarity. Being at your most productive is about more than just doing. It's doing the right things in the right order. It's about making clear-headed decisions and not rushing. To be at our most productive we need to give ourselves time to pause, allow our thoughts to clear so we can reflect—and consider—meaningfully. Just having a "To Do" list is not enough to be productive... Most of us get caught up in a daily whirlwind of choices and activities. Even routine activities have choices attached to them—what to have for breakfast, do we watch TV or listen to the radio, what salad dressing should we choose? Our brains fill up. We get distracted. We lose focus. And even if we don't, life has a habit of—well—happening! We MUST make time—to sit still. To pause and reflect. And it's in that clearing of our minds that we see what is most important. In stillness we notice what we can let go of, what we can delegate, what we need to change, what we could say no to—and what we need to say yes to. Stillness helps us adapt our plans and actions to the reality of what is actually happening in our lives. There's a very good reason surfers don't go out when the water is cloudy... Because you can't see the sharks! And we also need clarity so we can spot our hidden obstacles—those sharks or crocodiles of our lives waiting to 'ambush' us. It's AS important to find stillness regularly (to pause and reflect) as it is to plan and act. And the great thing is that when we make that pause for stillness (which so many of us skip!) it's usually shorter, easier and more pleasant than planning or doing! How long does it take you to take 10 deep breaths? How hard is it for you to stare out of the window and let your brain settle out? One minute? Two? So how can you start to pause and find stillness? Well, first, stop rushing from one thing to the next. Do: Take the opportunity to pause between your tasks and appointments. Pause at the transitions between your personal life and work life—the beginning, lunchtime and end of the work day. Have a short break when you get your cup of coffee or tea. Pause for no good reason! And don't fill every spare minute with: Social media, your email or starting the next task. Reading articles, listening to podcasts and cramming your mind with ever more information. Instead sit still and breathe. Stare out of the window. Let things settle and wait for your muddy mind to clear. I guarantee both you and your clients will be more productive! Wisdom requires the discerning, the listening to, the acknowledgement of nudges and notions, of senses and sensations, of the minute and what we often mistakenly assume is the mundane. Wisdom means listening to the still, small voice, the whisper that can be easily lost in the whirlwind of busyness, expectations, and conventions of the world. Jean M. Blomquist If you liked this article about productivity and stillness, you may also like: Are You Doing Too Much? The Perils of Multitasking 12 Easy Ideas to Get More Done AND Have Fun Too! De-Stress Series: Relax Your Clients in Under 5 Minutes with these Guided Meditation Scripts Contributing Author: Emma-Louise Elsey is passionate about kindness, coaching and personal development and has been coaching since 2003. She's the Founder and Former CEO of The Coaching Tools Company, and Founder of Fierce Kindness. Originally a project and relationship manager for Fortune 500 companies she loves to create coaching tools and exercises, including lots of free coaching tools for you here at The Coaching Tools Company. Through Fierce Kindness she helps people create a life they love, make a difference and learn to be kind to themselves. She'd love you to sign-up for the Fierce Kindness Newsletter and grab a free How to Be Kind to Yourself Workbook. Or connect personally on Linkedin, Facebook or Instagram. Learn more about Emma-Louise & see all their articles here >> Categories: Clarity & Focus, Coaching Ideas & Inspiration, Coaching Tips, Personal Growth for Coaches, Productivity & Time Management, Self-Care for Coaches Image of Mountains, Lake, Reflections and Boat by MonikaIris via Pixabay Image of Stressed woman by RobinHiggins via Pixabay Image of Shark Fin in Water by alondav via Pixabay Image of Coffee cup by gadost0 via Pixabay 4 Comments Aditi December 26, 2013 This article is great. Just made me realize that i feel i will miss something if i take a break but it is so important to stop for few moments. Reply Emma-Louise December 27, 2013 That's awesome Aditi! And you're not alone... I feel that way too (often) I think it's drilled into us to always be doing. But we're missing out on something too by constantly doing... Warmly, EL Reply Shannon Pearce June 16, 2014 I wondered if you have read "Invitation to Solitude and Silence" by Ruth Haley Barton Reply Emma-Louise June 17, 2014 Hi Shannon, Thanks so much for taking the time to comment (again!). I have not read “Invitation to Solitude and Silence” by Ruth Haley Barton. I have added it to my wishlist. Thanks for the suggestion. Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply Leave a Reply Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published.CommentName* Email* Website Δ
Aditi December 26, 2013 This article is great. Just made me realize that i feel i will miss something if i take a break but it is so important to stop for few moments. Reply
Emma-Louise December 27, 2013 That's awesome Aditi! And you're not alone... I feel that way too (often) I think it's drilled into us to always be doing. But we're missing out on something too by constantly doing... Warmly, EL Reply
Shannon Pearce June 16, 2014 I wondered if you have read "Invitation to Solitude and Silence" by Ruth Haley Barton Reply
Emma-Louise June 17, 2014 Hi Shannon, Thanks so much for taking the time to comment (again!). I have not read “Invitation to Solitude and Silence” by Ruth Haley Barton. I have added it to my wishlist. Thanks for the suggestion. Warmly, Emma-Louise Reply