Stop Blaming: Pick up the Mirror, not the Magnifying Glass! Reading Time: 1 min 10 sec Do you have a client who always blames someone else, who seems to create drama wherever they go or who finds it hard to take responsibility for their role in situations? If so, the simple coaching metaphor of... Read More...
Coaching Tools 101: Handle Rejection Like A Pro With These 10 Top Tips! Reading Time: 2 min Rejection is utterly unavoidable in life. So why do people spend so much time and energy trying? Well, it hurts of course! But it doesn't need to… In order to minimize the pain of rejection, we can... Read More...
Do Your Clients Make this Rejection Mistake? And a Powerful Tip! Reading Time: 1 min 10 sec Rejection is painful for many of us. And it can be even more painful when it's something we worked hard towards or really, really wanted. And that makes it even more important that we learn from our... Read More...
Another Tool to Handle Rejection, Self-Esteem! Reading Time: 2 min For me, one of the things that makes handling rejection difficult is the link our brains make between rejection and our sense of self. In other words: when people get rejected they allow it to negatively... Read More...
Help Clients Handle Rejection Beautifully - 5 Reframes to Really Give Them Something to Think About! Reading Time: 3 min As coaches, we know the power of perception and belief, but many of our clients do not. Over the years I have come to deeply realize that what ultimately drives us is not logic or 'reality' - but how we... Read More...
Coaching Questions 101: 7 Questions to Identify Values with Your Client! Reading Time: less than 1 min I believe that helping our clients understand themselves and what drives them is one of the most important services we provide for our clients. Values work is therefore an essential coaching tool in every... Read More...
10 Meaningful Areas to Reflect on as the New Year Approaches... Reading Time: 2 min Reflection time is not just important—it's ESSENTIAL. It gives us the opportunity to acknowledge our challenges, difficulties—and our successes. It helps us see where we have grown and what directions... Read More...
(Why) Give Your Client a HUG: A Huge Unbelievable Goal! Reading Time: 3 min I love HUGs, don't you? I'm talking about Huge Unbelievable Goals—where we inspire ourselves to live a bigger life with a huge goal: the bigger the better! The wonderful thing about HUGs is that... Read More...
Just Make Up Your Mind! 7 Fun Ways To Make Decisions Reading Time: 1 min 5 sec Have a client who can't make up their mind? Well, whether it's too much information, choice or analysis these fun ideas provide tips to help (you or!) your client make a decision - and move forwards. 7 Fun... Read More...
*UPDATED* The Most Powerful Question to Wrap up a Coaching Session - and Why! Reading Time: 2 min Over the years I have come to ask just one question to wrap-up a coaching session. But while the question remains the same, the answers vary significantly from client to client - and from week to... Read More...